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| Geoff Luther and Tammy Luther, back, leave a park district facility after picking up their children Trent, 6, and Kayla, 3, right, from swimming lessons in Oak Brook, Jan. 16, 2007. Geoff Luther was in a car accident that left him paralyzed below the waist and haunted by worries that he'd lost the chance to be a father. But with the help of doctors at the Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago, Luther and his wife now have two children. (AP Photo/Aynsley Floyd) |
CHICAGO
-- In the weeks following the car accident that left him paralyzed
below the waist, Geoff Luther was haunted by worries that he’d
lost the chance to be a father.
Then 27, he hadn’t yet
fallen in love with the woman of his dreams. When he did, he wanted to
start a family with her. But how?
“It was some of the
stuff I was thinking about the most,” said Luther, who rolled his
S-10 Blazer on black ice. “What about having children? What about
getting married? Can you naturally conceive a family?”
His
questions are shared by thousands of young men each year who suffer
paralyzing spinal injuries. But many may give up hope — or
undergo unnecessary, invasive procedures — because their doctors
don’t know about simple ways to help them.
Doctors at the
Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago told Luther, now 43, that most men
with spinal cord injuries can father children. But the treatments that
allowed Luther and his wife, Tammy, 38, to conceive aren’t
offered to many injured men.
Instead some fertility doctors jump
immediately to expensive, invasive procedures, such as surgically
extracting sperm from the testes, when confronted by a man in a
wheelchair.
The Luthers, who live in Oak Brook, Ill., avoided
that procedure. Nonetheless, it took six years and, they acknowledge
frankly, tens of thousands of dollars before they succeeded. But after
a tour through most of the methods and procedures of rehab fertility
medicine, the Luthers conceived their son, Trent, now 6, and daughter
Kayla, now 3.
“We went through it all,” Tammy Luther said.
Their
story illustrates how determined couples can conceive with guidance
from medical professionals who are well-versed in techniques that work
for paralyzed men.
Unfortunately, many fertility centers don’t know the basics.
Nancy
Brackett, a researcher at the Miami Project to Cure Paralysis, surveyed
more than 100 fertility centers and discovered that 28 percent
don’t offer two simple techniques that rehab experts have used
successfully for years and that work for 95 percent of paraplegic and
quadriplegic men. Brackett published her findings in the October issue
of Fertility and Sterility, a journal read by reproductive medicine
doctors, and now she has made the issue her soapbox.
Most men
with spinal cord injuries have varying degrees of difficulty with
erection and ejaculation. Medications like Viagra help some. Others
need only a special vibrator to collect sperm; insemination of their
partners can be done with a syringe in private, at home.
Paul and Shelly LeVasseur of Winfield, Ill., felt lucky they could conceive at home.
“There
are times when it is rather clinical and there are times when it is
very romantic,” Paul LeVasseur said. Their children are Ben, 6,
and Danielle, 2, and they are trying for another.
Other injured
men require a different device that that triggers ejaculation with a
low-voltage impulse of electricity, a procedure borrowed from animal
husbandry and developed for use in humans by Dr. Carol J. Bennett and
her colleagues in University of Michigan’s urology department.
Geoff
Luther remembers asking his doctor: “How will you know when you
have it turned up high enough? Will my ears start smoking or
what?”
That technique worked for Luther, but his sperm
quality was low. So, a single sperm was injected into one of
Tammy’s eggs to create an embryo. The resulting embryo was
implanted in Tammy’s womb and, finally, she was pregnant.
“I loved being pregnant,” she said.
Brackett
wants doctors to try simple solutions before assuming they must use
surgical means to retrieve sperm from the testes of injured men. In her
survey, some doctors said they lacked training or equipment, or were
unfamiliar with the methods.
“If we forget these simple
things, it’s almost like going backward,” Brackett said.
“It does a disservice to these patients.”
Of the
11,000 spinal cord injuries annually in the United States, 80 percent
are among men between the ages of 16 and 45 — the prime
reproductive years.
Rehabilitation Institute nurse practitioner
Diane Rowles, who teaches a class called Sexuality and Fertility to
patients, said sex is “a very private topic, a very personal
topic.” But if medical staff don’t educate spine injury
patients about sex and fertility, they may assume the worst: that
they’re not able to have a sex life or father children.
“It’s
a big thing. You just can’t leave it out,” Rowles said.
“They need to learn about it, too.”
The
Luthers’ children haven’t asked where babies come from.
Tammy Luther said someday, if they ask, she’ll tell them about
many different ways children come into the world, from adoption to
reproduction with medical help.
Geoff Luther said he
doesn’t know what he would say. “I still haven’t had
that talk with my mom and dad, so I’m not sure,” he said.
He
does know what he would say to any man with a spinal cord injury who
wants to be a father: “Search out the best doctors, or you can
waste a lot of time and resources.”
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