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days before Christmas — and three months and two days after
suffering a debilitating spinal cord injury on the South Gwinnett High
School football field — Arquevious Crane came home.
He came home to a red-brick, four-bedroom house in a
picturesque Loganville subdivision with neatly manicured lawns. The
house was a gift — talk about great Christmas presents —
from the Snell family of E.R. Snell Contractors Inc., a clan with a
heart the size of the Comets' football field named after business
co-founder Richard Snell.
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Snells bought the $225,000 house for Arquevious Crane's family, and
they will also pay for its utilities for an 'unlimited' time. Britt's
Home Furnishing, Brownlee's Furniture and Signature Gallery Furniture
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Arquevious
'Q' Crane laughs with his three sisters — Tiffany Crane(from
left), 12, Zakiyyah Salaam, 11, and Khadijah Salaam, 14 — while
playing a video game. He suffered a spinal injury during a football
game Sept. 20.
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Arquevious
uses a joystick to control his wheelchair in the house that was given
to the family by the Snell family of E.R. Snell Contractors Inc.
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But it was more than that. The $225,000 house is a tangible symbol
of the charity of a community that wiped its collective tears and let
its compassionate spirit burst through after Crane was felled on Sept.
20.
Less than 24 hours after the 16-year-old was carted off the field on
a stretcher during a junior varsity game, forces in and around
Snellville galvanized as if organized by an event planner.
Only it was not. It was organized chaos, thoughtful people frantic
to aid an unsuspecting kid and devastated family. There were
fund-raisers and benefits, letters and e-mails, flowers and prayers.
"Our family is so grateful," said Barbara Crane, Arquevious'
grandmother, who adopted him as a youth. "You don't know what to expect
from people when something like this happens. But you don't expect
this. It has really moved our hearts that people not only care so much,
but that they have given so much. It means a lot."
Unbelievable generosity
Arquevious Crane speaks in soft tones and a methodical cadence. And
he smiles a lot. "No, I didn't know I had so many friends," he said.
"I'm just grateful. People have been great. From the beginning, every
day, people show their support.
"It's unbelievable."
Why would strangers be so unbelievably generous? "The belief in
Jesus Christ and that we are supposed to help folks," said Chris Snell,
an executive with E.R. Snell, which was started in 1923 in Gwinnett
County. "My family and this company always have given back. [Crane's]
injury was a big hurt to the community."
Snell could relate to Crane's plight like few
others. When he was 19, the 50-year-old Snell suffered a spinal cord
injury on the job and remains paralyzed from the chest down.
Said Snell, who visited Crane when he was at the Shepherd Center: "I
know what he's facing — and his family." Which was more reason
for the Snell family to want the Cranes out of their rented home in
Snellville, where they could not make renovations to accommodate a
wheelchair.
After the Snells purchased the house, Bowen Family Homes of Duluth
emerged to donate labor and materials to renovate the bathrooms, widen
the doorways and add ramps to make the new home wheelchair serviceable.
Then there was Britt's Home Furnishing on U.S. 78, which donated a
washer, dryer and dishwasher. Brownlee's Furniture of Lawrenceville
contributed living room and dining room furniture. Signature Gallery
Furniture of Snellville donated a bed, mattress and box spring.
Additionally, Southern Sanitation of Loganville provided free
service for a year. The Snells paid for the house outright and will pay
all utility bills at the residence for an "unlimited" time.
"Amazing," said Dana Doster, the outgoing president for the South
Gwinnett Touchdown Club, a group of parents and volunteers who support
the football program. The organization has not experienced such a
massive fund-raising and support effort.
Doster was the facilitator of many of the events that have comforted
the Crane family. Once the magnitude of Crane's injury was known,
Doster went on a personal crusade to raise money and find resources to
help the football player and his grandmother and four younger siblings.
She went house-hunting with Barbara Crane for four days. She helped
her pack for the move. She organized benefits and facilitated support
from local individuals and companies.
"Why? Because I'm a mother," Doster said simply. She has two children: Ashley, 22, and Chris, a senior on the Comets' team this season.
She knew Crane, who is called "Q" by most everyone, as a fun-loving,
always-smiling South football player. Doster said she knows him better
now, having visited him regularly.
Doster and Jamie Britt, the new South Gwinnett Touchdown Club
president, also set up the Arquevious Crane Assistance Fund at Wachovia
Bank. Doster estimates there is $48,000 in the account, with many
donors telling her personally "that their contribution should be used
for Q's future medical needs," she said.
Trust company sought; giving doesn't stop
This is where this feel-good story gets testy. Barbara Crane, 62,
said she has concerns over the lack of access to the money raised,
saying Doster has prevented her from using some of it for family
purposes.
"I know of cases where people have said they donated money for the
family, but the family has not received it," Barbara Crane said.
"People have been great and we are very thankful. But if people's
intention is for some of the money to help the family, then that's what
should happen."
Doster's retort: "I know of donors who gave me checks for $10,000,
$8,000, $5,000 [for the Arquevious Crane Assistance Fund] who said they
wanted the money specifically used for Arquevious' future medical
needs. Not anything else. So I have to honor their desires. And he's
going to need resources 10 years down the road for medical expenses.
"Many donations, we don't know who contributed or what they wanted
it used for. But no one's said to me, 'Give this money to the family.' "
To help sort through the concerns, the Touchdown Club is working to secure a trust company that would manage the fund.
"It's unfortunate, but I'm not worrying about it because I don't
want it to take away from what the community has done to help
Arquevious," Barbara Crane said.
Help started right away, right at the school — which
has about 2,800 students — where Crane's teammates and classmates
stalked the halls with plastic buckets seeking donations. Many Gwinnett
County schools — particularly Buford, the school South was
playing when the injury occurred — and other schools across the
state sent in donations or called with prayers and well-wishes.
The Falcons' Warrick Dunn visited Crane in the hospital and gave him
a signed jersey. So did the Georgia football team, which left a signed
football. Florida's team sent a signed ball. Zaxby's restaurant on U.S.
78 raised money, so did Crane's bus driver and the Snellville police.
And the giving doesn't seem to have an end. Former Harlem
Globetrotter Shorty Coleman is hosting a benefit for Crane at the South
Gwinnett High gymnasium on Jan. 20.
"We've never had anything this tragic happen," Doster said. "But I
know how caring this community is, so I'm not surprised at how it has
really stepped up and been there for this family.
"And I know we will always be there for them."