Accident damages Gainesville man's body but not his spirit
ATLANTA -- Vester Lewis is getting used to what he calls "the new normal."
Normal
for him used to be enjoying his retirement from AT&T with his wife,
Lynn, ministering to kids at Hopewell Baptist Church, playing with his
grandchildren and taking lunchtime jogs near his home off Tanners Mill
Road.
All
that changed on the afternoon of May 7 when a car driven by an alleged
drunken driver plowed into him as he jogged along the side of the road,
sending him flying. The impact cracked his ribs, collapsed a lung, tore
ligaments in his knee and broke his back.
"It
was like a missile, and I couldn't get out of the way," said Lewis, who
has spent the last three months at the Shepherd Center, an Atlanta
hospital that specializes in catastrophic spinal cord injuries. He has
very limited movement of his legs and cannot stand or walk on his own.
"When (the car) hit me, it hit me so hard, I thought I was going to heaven," Lewis said.
But Lewis, 56, said he believes God had other plans for him.
Normal
now is wheelchairs and seemingly endless therapy sessions, workouts so
intense that afterward he returns to his on-site apartment and "passes
out" from exhaustion.
Normal is talking with other folks who are in similar situations, offering comfort when he can, taking lessons from others.
"I
feel like the Lord had a reason for this, and one of the reasons was
that I could be an encouragement to other people here," Lewis said.
"And there are people who I've been able to pray with and encourage,
and there have been people who have encouraged me."
For
a man who doesn't know yet if he will ever walk again, Lewis appears
remarkably positive. He is one of a select few enrolled in an
aggressive Rehabilitation program aimed at returning to mobility with
the help of harnesses and treadmills. The long-term prognosis is
uncertain, but Lewis said his legs become stronger each day.
The
woman who authorities say struck Lewis with her car, 46-year-old
Annette Jackson of Gainesville, has pending charges of DUI and felony
serious injury by vehicle. It was her second DUI arrest, according to
court records.
Lewis
said he "doesn't have hard feelings," against Jackson, though he added,
"I wish she wasn't drunk at 1 o'clock in the afternoon."
"That
person needs help as bad as anyone else," Lewis said. "Hopefully, they
will get their life right. I would love to see them in church. That's
what's changed my life."
The
only time Lewis chokes up is when he talks about the children who he
visited in hospitals as part of his church work and how kids are now
sending him cards and praying for his recovery.
"If anything else comes of this, it will help me relate to them more," he said.
Lewis,
his wife and their adult daughters have received an outpouring of
support from the Gainesville community. Volunteers have been hard at
work making the Lewis home handicapped-accessible. It should be ready
for his return home Aug. 22.
On
Aug. 26, a charity golf tournament will be held at Chicopee Woods Golf
Course to help defray the expenses the Lewis family has incurred
through the ordeal.
Lewis said he's taken valuable lessons from this new challenge and relied heavily on his faith for strength.
"You
may be sitting in a wheelchair or walker or crutches, but you're still
the same person," Lewis said. "You still can make a difference."
Lewis said the children who pray he walks again "hope the Lord answers their prayers, and I do to."
But either way, he will live "the new normal" life the best he can.
"I've got the hope of walking again, but if I'm not able to walk, I'll still be able to live."